HER.
A 5 week self paced transformative course on restoring your self-worth. For the woman who is done constantly putting herself last in relationships thinking she needs to prove herself worthy of the relationship by over giving, self-abandoning and depleting herself. To the woman who stops abandoning her needs, knows her worth and trusts herself to choose herself first without the guilt.
❌ You’re done with …
the over-giving, self abandonment and neglecting your own needs for the sake of “being in a relationship” to prove you’re worthy of said relationship.
NOT even the bare minimum of your partner for the sake of “keeping the peace.”
feeling like you have to skip the gym and run home to make sure food is ready before they come home in a mood and thinking you didn’t do enough to make them happy.
NOT loving yourself enough to put yourself first EVEN if it’s taking a sip of water before you do for your partner.
tip toeing around your partners emotions because “you don’t want to be the bad guy” even IF that means doing everything yourself while they watch football.
immediately being exhausted once your eyes open because you’re thinking of the 75 things you have to do for others rather than taking 10 minutes to fill your cup up
What is HER.? How does it work?
HER. is a 5 week transformative self-worth course for women who are tired of their man doing less than the bare minimum and want a man that opens their car door, does the dishes, cooks, cleans and laundry without even having to ask.
This is the exact method I used to:
Change my relationship from feeling like a mom— always doing, providing, taking care of to a man who treated me with love, devotion, doing and providing.
Feel safe within my body and realizing that half of the negative spirals I had about myself weren’t even mine to begin with.
Rewired my brain and subconscious to truly start embodying my worth and what I provided to those around me by simply existing.
Retrain myself and the way I saw my relationship. I got out of my victim mentally and realized I was part of the problem.
Start actually liking myself again and who I saw in the mirror.
Stop the guilty thoughts of putting myself first.
This work doesn’t happen by writing “I am worthy” affirmations under a full moon for an entire year.
It happens when you understand where the low self-worth came from and healing it at the ROOT.
This isn’t another “just love yourself 💕” course
where you’re told to write 10 things you love about yourself in a journal and suddenly expect to feel worthy.
Because you can KNOW you’re worthy and still …
Feel guilt for asking for what you actually want.
Say “it’s fine” when it’s absolutely not fine.
Put everyone else first and then wonder why you feel resentful
Accept LESS than the bare minimum because asking for more feels “too much".
Look in the mirror and pick apart everything you don’t like about yourself.
Need someone else to tell you that it’s okay to do something for yourself so you don’t feel guilty.
That’s the sh*t we’re actually getting to the root of.
Because logically knowing your worth and actually believing you’re worthy are two completely different energies.
And if your subconscious still believes you have to over give, shrink yourself, be “easy”, stay quiet, or prove your value to be loved …
you’re going to keep recreating those patterns— even when you consciously know better.
Because the goal isn’t to walk around repeating “I’m worthy” while a part of you is still thinking…
“Yeah right. No I’m not.”
The goal is to actually believe it.
And when that belief changes at the subconscious level, your relationships, choices, boundaries, money, and entire reality have to start meeting you differently.
In 5 weeks we will …
Identify where the low self worth started from because you and I both know that pattern didn’t start with you.
Understanding the Universal law of Reflections and realizing that your relationships are actually showing you the way you see yourself.
Be given tools that you can take and use in everyday life to keep building your self-worth even after the course is done.
Learn how to clean your energy so you stop taking on everyone else’s negative thoughts about themselves and learn to decipher between your own thoughts and theirs.
Learn how to catch yourself abandoning yourself in real time. Before you say yes when you mean no, swallow your needs, or settle for less than you want.
Create a character of the version of you who KNOWS she’s the sh*t— without needing to announce it, prove it, chase it, or convince anyone else.
NOTE: This is a self paced course. It will not be live. BUT we will have live Q & A’s through zoom where you can ask all your questions there :)
You’ll get new content sent to you each week and implement the tools/information into your everyday life.
This work only works if you do it!
I didn’t realize how heavy my relationship felt until it wasn’t
There was a point in my relationship where I didn’t know who I was anymore.
I had slowly become us instead of me.
I stopped doing things I loved because what if he didn’t want to go? What if he got upset that I wanted to do something without him?
So I just … stopped
I thought I needed to be available to him 24/7. Make sure he was happy. Make sure his needs were met.
And in my head, I thought, If I’m giving this much, he’ll eventually give it back.
Expect .. he didn’t
I’d be standing in the kitchen doing dishes, thinking, “Does he seriously not see how much I’m doing right now?”
I’d be exhausted from cooking, cleaning, laundry— everything— and instead of saying, “I need help,” I’d hope he’d just notice.
After awhile I started to become resentful. Towards him and myself.
Because I kept abandoning my own wants just to keep everyone else happy.
I thought putting myself first was selfish.
I thought having boundaries meant someone might get upset with me (and we can’t have that! 😒)
So I kept choosing everyone else…
and wondered why I felt so f*cking exhausted all the time.
I was waiting for him to change so I could finally change.
Then I realized: I couldn’t keep waiting for someone else to give me permission to show up differently in my own life.
So I started changing how I saw myself and how I showed up daily.
And everything started shifting.
He started opening my car door without even asking— yes I know. I was shocked too 😂
He started paying for dinners.
He started helping more around the house.
Our connection got deeper. Our communication changed. And for the first time, I could actually feel my nervous system soften.
I thought I had to leave and find a different relationship to get what I wanted.
Turns out, I needed to become a different version of me inside the relationship I already had.
And if I can create the relationship I always dreamed of without endlessly bouncing from relationship to relationship looking for it, you can too.
That’s why I created HER.
This is for you if…
You’re willing to put in the work to transform your current situation
You’re done blaming others for why you can’t take care of yourself
You want a relationship where you don’t feel like their mom but someone who is cared and provided for
You’ve been stuck in survival mode for years and thinking things will magically get better.
You’ve been pouring into everyone else and still wondering why no one is pouring into you
This is NOT for you if …
You want to stay in a victim mentally and not take responsibility of your part.
Want to remain being the “mom” in the relationship
Don’t want to put in the work because “it’s too much”
You believe this is how relationship and life is suppose to be
You’re not willing to put yourself first even if it’s hard at the beginning
You’re not willing to go through the uncomfortableness this work will bring up.
Who told you putting yourself first was selfish?
HER. is designed to create lasting empowerment, change and owning who the F*CK you are … not keep you in the same negative self talk cycle.
THIS WORK HAPPENS
WITHOUT a new man every two months.
WITHOUT the 2 hour therapy appointment every week with your therapist complaining to her the same problem about your man with no solution.
WITHOUT years of trying to figure out what’s wrong with you.
WITHOUT the 2 hour mediation, ETF tapping and journaling.
WITHOUT adding hours of self-work into an already busy schedule.
WITHOUT constantly feeling guilty about wanting your needs met and thinking you’re “too much”.
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NOTE: This is a self paced course. It will not be taught live. BUT we will have live Q & A’s weekly through zoom where you can ask anything you want.
You’ll get new content sent to you each week and implement the tools/information into your everyday life.
This work only works if you do it!
You will also be put into a telegram chat with other girlies that are going through it as well so you can all get to know one another. Having a community of like minded women is so so helpful when healing. You feel less alone in it all.
It’s also a great time 😉
My Personal Transformation
Who is Mackenzie???
I’m an intuitive mentor + energetic healer for the women who want the relationships, career, money and lifestyle they desire. I’m also a animal communicator for the pet owners that desire to understand more about what’s going on in their pets mind, body and soul through teaching owners intuition (so they take back their power) and helping them heal their pets body ailments through healing themselves.
Together we work to uncover the limiting beliefs, trauma and old patterns that are keeping you stuck in the same old miserable loop of what’s currently your life. Through using intuition and brain reprogramming (neuroscience) tools we heal old patterns + traumas for good so you can finally stop self sabotaging and enter the dream life you’ve always knew was meant for you.
And if you have pets? Well lets just say healing those traumas and limiting beliefs will heal your pets in the process ;)
With this work I have healed my own anxiety + depression. I have completely changed my love life around and no longer feel the resentment, anger or guilt I once felt and now have a little boy on the way. Lost 20+ lbs now than I did with working out 2 hours a day and eating a strict diet. I healed my own dogs reactivity, trust issues and anxiety through trusting my intuition and honing in on keeping my emotions leveled. I have also helped others heal their pets who suffered from physical issues, women who were having money problems in business, finding their dream jobs and homes with this work.
So happy to have you here!